Confidence is an attitude and the result of consistent actions. Core principle is what you practice, you become.
The Vibration of success -Imagine I have two violins. When I play a note on one of them, the corresponding string of the other violin will vibrate as well. Scientists call this the ‘Law of sympathetic resonance’. Whenever the two objects are tuned into the same frequency, energy from one automatically gets transferred to the other. Phrases such as being in tune, being on the same wavelength… mean the same.
Abandon the “fake it until you make it” approach, as it contributes to the lack of confidence
By modelling the physiology of someone who is truly confident, you will begin to develop the same confident mindset.
Learn the difference between confident risk-taking and foolish acts of self-endangerment and how to define the risks worth taking.
We all have certain nutritional requirements. It is not that by consuming fruits & vegetables we can fight diseases, it is the absence of there nutrients that make us susceptible to diseases.
What we need to do right now is undo what the food manufacturing industry has done to us. They have changed the very nature of food and have turned them into addictive and nutrient empty non-food. And then through marketing techniques, they have taken away your sense of food choice. They are using the most cutting-edge technology to get you to make certain food decisions
We must bring back our choice and our consciousness…..
It’s easy to assume that a person with a high income must be wealthy—but this is often far from the truth. True wealth is better captured by net worth, which considers not just what you earn, but what you own and owe. Consider this: a corporate executive earning Rs.20,00,000 a year may appear rich, but if they’re saddled with a large mortgage, car loans, credit card debt, and no real savings, their actual wealth could be negligible. On the other hand, a retired schoolteacher living modestly with no debt, a paid-off home, and a well-managed investment portfolio might quietly hold a net worth in the millions. Net worth is the sum of your assets—like cash, property, and investments—minus your liabilities. It reflects your financial resilience and security far more accurately than income alone ever can.
A personal anecdote illustrates this well. A friend of mine, Rina, worked freelance and earned a modest income compared to her peers in high-paying tech jobs. However, she lived simply, invested early in index funds, and paid off her student loans diligently. Meanwhile, another acquaintance, Ajay, was always the highest earner at parties—sporting luxury watches and driving the newest car—but constantly complained about being “broke by the end of the month.” Ten years down the line, Rina owns her home outright and travels freely, while Ajay still juggles EMIs and is dependent on his next salary. This contrast shows that income can create the illusion of wealth, but net worth tells the real story.
BELIEVING THAT MONEY IS A ZERO-SUM RISK: There is nothing in this world that comes with zero risk. The risk may be low or high. The way to think is not to eliminate this risk, but the way to manage it.
SHORT TERM THINKING: This has two repercussions- either you spend all your money thinking there is no need to save money and be responsible for it, or you live like a miser believing that this is the only opportunity to make money. None of these 2 is the wise choice to make. One has to play the game of disciplined budgeting.
IGNORING INFLATION: Until you don’t think of it as a reality, you will always make the mistake of being happy with whatever growth you get on your money. This is not the right way to think.
IGNORING TAXES: If you combine the inflation and the tax you pay on your profits, the growth that you presume, becomes narrower.
SPENDING MONEY THAT YOU DON’T HAVE: Credit cards are the culprit here. If your buying things worth more than your income, using your credit card, you are essentially bankrupting yourself.
EGO & MONEY: Think about the times when you make the impulsive purchasing, the reason behind that is your ego. You want to show a certain self of yours to the world or convince yourself about something.
MISUNDERSTANDING COMPOUNDING: The dark side is that if your money grows with compounding, the same is the feature of loans. It too grows with compounding.
IGNORING HIDDEN COSTS: Every single expense has a hidden cost. They are called the ‘phantom costs’.
RELYING ON SINGLE SOURCE OF INCOME- Do not believe that your job has to be your only source of income.
NOT CREATING A SAFETY MARGIN- Health insurance, life insurance- money has to be used for your protection.
GAINING FROM OTHER’S LOSS-There is enough for everybody.
INVESTMENT ILLUSION: That everybody wants to get rich quickly, shortcuts to apply. It’s not an overnight journey.
Nobody has 25 hours in a day! The homeless person that you see on the streets has 24 hours, the most powerful empire builders in the world also have 24 hours. There is no difference……
16 hours of those 24 hours are very similar for all human beings- eating, sleeping, spending time with family, travelling to work etc. It is the next 8 hours that make all the difference!!
What you do in the third section of those 8 hours, will determine whether you struggle, whether you end up average, above average or exceptional!
Did you know that our upbringing has a profound impact on who we become.
If you grew up in an unloving environment, you may have developed traits you didn’t even realise stemmed from those experiences.
Personal Development is about so many things, from developing your mind to developing your attitude towards life, developing your skills and overall becoming a better human being. You may think this stuff maybe really intuitive, simple and common sense. Its anything, but just a common practice. Our personalities are formed of a complex mix of cultural factors, conditioning, the environment, the era that we grew up in and certainly few genetically inherited characteristics. A few characteristics which I have noticed closely, with people who grew up in families which had less love and support are as below:
These kinds of people are rebellious. They would like to do things differently because they maybe seeking attention, they want to be different and not be like everybody else. When they grow up, especially in their teenage, they at times become troublemakers. They just defy orders!
These kinds of people are hyper-vigilant. They pay attention to every little detail, maybe because when they were growing up, they did not feel like they could just relax. They would always feel like there is volatility at home, walking on eggshells, no sense of certainty and they were never comforted. Consequently, their brains get hardwired to become hyper-vigilant.
They find it very difficult to trust people. So, if your own family has let you down when you were growing up, when you grow up you inherit that mindset that you cannot rely upon people.
These people are fiercely independent. As much as possible, they hate relying on people. They want to try and do everything themselves, because in the past they already had numerous experiences where they have relied on people and they have been led down. They live with continuous disappointing experiences.
They are sceptical about people. They know that people can be good, largely they don’t see people being benevolent. They often carry this perception that most people cannot be naturally good.
They have distrust of authority. It goes back to point of being rebellious. Generally, they do not give that respect to people in authority, unlike others. They struggle to listen to teachers, parents etc. They believe that most of these people who have got positions may have done something wrong, because they have seen an imperfect system. They have seen in their family that people who have authority, did not ever deserve that authority.
These people tend to be emotionally aloof and are very sensitive to betrayal. The moment they see signs of betrayal, they will quickly flip.
They have an excessive need to prove themselves. During their childhood, they did not get the acknowledgement, validation and approval of people whom they looked up to for being loved. They realise that only by doing something extraordinary, would they be given validation.
People have limiting beliefs all the time. Problem is that when you have a belief, you think it’s the truth… but its not, its just a belief! Beliefs can blind you into thinking what you believe is truth and people can be made to believe anything. We know that there are terrorists who have been conditioned to believe that by killing people they will be going to the heaven. What makes the human mind so dangerous is that it can be primed to believe anything. You can brainwash and indoctrinate anyone who is not self-aware. And majority of people are not self-aware and that’s why are prone to indoctrination and brain wash. That ways you will always be a slave to someone’s else’ agenda and can never be a master of your own destiny because you cannot see what is going on. We have to take control of our most important asset- THE MIND! Your mind can not just make you rich or poor but can also make you fit or unhealthy. Thinking is real and is powerful! And if you are an unconscious thinker then you have a problem-you are not even aware of what you think or believe, not even aware of why & what you are doing. What is the difference between a man and an animal? If I throw a ball, my dog will run after the ball. Do you think my dog thinks that she is running after a ball? No, its just an instinct. She is doing the act without being conscious of the act. That is the fundamental difference between humans and animals. Animals are not conscious of what they are doing. Humans have the ability of being conscious of what they are doing. Ask yourself why you do what you do? Why have you chosen certain things in your life? Why do you have the biases that you have? Does the pet in our house tell us how to live or we tell them how to live? It’s because we tell the pet that we are of a higher consciousness than you so we will tell you how to live. Fair enough! So, think now from humans’ point of view. People who have higher consciousness than us rule us and tell us how to live- I am your master! If you have a master, then you are not conscious. Its just like we have the dominion over the animal world by virtue of our consciousness, in the human world, those humans who are more conscious than us have dominion over us! I HAVE MENTORS, I DO NOT HAVE MASTERS! If you cannot express yourself, cannot live freely, cannot do what you want to do, then you are living under a master. They make decisions for you. You don’t mind making decisions for your pet, your masters don’t mind making decisions for you. This is the hierarchy… the lower you are, the more people make decisions for you. A degree doesn’t facilitate consciousness, you may have many and yet be low down on the socio-economic ladder. We have to elevate our consciousness if we have to have dominion over our own life.
Can a person be good and dangerous at the same time?
That’s an important question to ponder.
Why?
Because all our lives, everyone tells us to be nice, good, etc.
But when others take advantage of those ‘good’ people, they feel cheated and unmotivated.
A person needs to be good and dangerous, not in a harmful or aggressive way, but in a way that commands respect and prevents others from taking advantage of them.
Dangerous not in a way to be harmful to others, but being the type of person that can’t be harmed, a person that can’t be messed with. There needs to be an edge to a person’s personal development. As long as people are fearful, they will settle into only small goals and small visions. All kinds of elementary education teaches people to be good and nice but you can’t be messed with. This will hinder you to become powerful.
I look at it in a positive way, “If you are dangerous, you are revered, you’re respected”. Like, Lion as an animal is dangerous. But when you go to the Zoo, you que upto see the Lion, you don’t want to que upto see the most domesticated animals. You may like and trust the domesticated animal, but if you really want to get the job done and really want to see the powerful and magnificent being, you que upto see the dangerous animal. Revered as someone we admire and respect from distance.
The problem is that our entire societal structure is making people to be obedient and compliant who just follow without asking questions. It has produced people who cant think for themselves, are powerless and especially when there are times of crises, these people are destroyed.
Men & WOMEN who have benefitted from the feminist movement
You may have heard about the feminist movement, which started a few years ago in the West…and it’s now spread everywhere across the world. Globally there are two groups of people that have been advantaged and two groups who have been disadvantaged from the feminist movement.
The advantaged group are the High-Value Men. They have so many choices with women that do not know what to do with it. The second advantaged group are the Average Women. They have become more liberated
The disadvantaged groups are -The Average Men. Women are brutally punishing the average men. That’s why the consumption of pornography is so high now. It is telling us that men are now finding sexual gratification through a screen because they have been rejected out there in the world. The second disadvantaged groups are the High Value Women. They want to be with the High value men, but these men don’t want to give up their independence for the high value women.
That’s why the high value women are having to stay single. She has worked very hard on her career and her degrees but the high value man doesn’t care about that. This is because the perceived value in men and women are very different. A lot of high value women who worked hard on their career, degree, the BMW, they thought that the men would respect them and love them for it, but men don’t care about such things, do they? The only time these men care of her career and her income is when you are looking for her to provide this for you.
In the vibrant tapestry of India, the struggle for gender equality is an ongoing battle. Among the myriad challenges faced by women, the lack of property rights stands out as a significant hurdle. In a country where tradition often clashes with modernity, women continue to be marginalized when it comes to property ownership. Property rights are not merely about owning land or assets; they symbolize economic independence, social status, and the ability to make decisions that shape one’s life. Unfortunately, women in India are frequently denied these rights due to entrenched patriarchal norms, discriminatory laws, and societal biases. The issue of property rights for women in India is deeply rooted in cultural and legal frameworks that perpetuate gender disparities. Despite progressive legislation such as the Hindu Succession Act, which grants equal inheritance rights to daughters, implementation remains a challenge in many parts of the country. Moreover, customary practices often override statutory laws, leaving women vulnerable to exploitation and disenfranchisement. To address this issue, concerted efforts are needed at various levels. Firstly, there must be greater awareness and advocacy to challenge societal norms and stereotypes that perpetuate gender inequality. Education plays a crucial role in empowering women to assert their rights and navigate legal complexities. However, investing in women goes beyond legal and policy measures. It requires a cultural shift that values and promotes gender equality. Women must be encouraged to support and uplift each other, recognizing that their collective empowerment is essential for progress. Instead of competing, women should collaborate, mentor, and advocate for one another, creating a supportive ecosystem where every woman can thrive. Lack of property rights for women in India is a glaring injustice that impedes their autonomy and hampers societal progress.
By investing in women’s empowerment through education, legal reforms, and fostering a culture of solidarity, we can bridge this gap and create a more equitable society where every woman’s rights are respected and upheld. Women are not here to fight with each other; they are here to promote each other!!
